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Wednesday, September 17, 2014

"People Charger"

I've heard that its dangerous and unhealthy to rely on someone other than yourself for your happiness. I've heard that this causes emotional cripples and they lean all over each other, causing both to fall. I think this problem is caused by entitlement. Expectation that their spouse is morally obligated to make them happy. Angela and I will never blame our own failure to be happy on one other. We are both strong independent people. That being said, we make one heck of a team. :)

Have you ever felt like your body and mind never recharge even with days of sleep? I've been tired for so long that I've just wanted to lay down, close my eyes, and never worry about anything ever again. However I have not felt this way for a very long time, but why? The short one word answer is "Angela". Instead of a "Battery Charger" she's my "People Charger".

Just as an introvert gets recharged by spending time alone and and extrovert gains energy from other people, with this post I would like to coin a new term. Wife-o-vert: or being recharged by your wife. Honestly, before Angela I thought I was out of luck. I thought that I just had to push though. I told myself "life is hard, I just need to deal with it," but now I feel like the luckiest person alive.

It's plain and simple for us, we are strong apart but unstoppable together. We all need help sometimes and we are there with tons of love for one another. With every day we figure out what love is capable of. We know that we are both humbly doing our best and when we have our fears we beat them together.

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